Love is a Verb 

So often greeting cards and movies paint a picture of romantic love just happening. Sitcoms have mostly shown happy families representing people who get along or work it all out in 22 minutes. Life is far more complex than most ads and media make it out to be. Unitarian Universalist theology speaks of love more and more. What does that mean? What does it mean to love not by accident but by choice? What is love is an action that leads to a feeling rather than the other way around?